Caregiver Takes Advantage of Patient With Dementia | What Would You Do? | WWYD
We’re in Brooklyn, New York. at the NAIL BOUTIQUE salon. Jazelle is a care giver, spending the day with her patient, Bill. Come on, Bill we’re gonna be late. “Late?” He suffers from Alzheimers, but instead of giving him some much needed mental therapy, this day at the spa is all about Jazelle. “Now I do this every week, I take him out, spend his money, and then drag him back off at the home.” “Where are we?” “Come on, Bill. Gimme your wallet.” That’s right, Gazelle is taking a personal day. -And it’s all on Bill’s tab. “Thank you.” A caregiver who couldn’t care less. “I do NOT get paid enough for this..” What would you do? *sigh* ” Hello? Hey! I am in the nail shop getting my nails done on the job. *laughs* While Gazelle chats away, her patient gets…impatient. “What are you doing?” “I’m fixing my nails.” “Bill.” Immediately, Gazelle wants Bill to stop making friends, and start making payments. “How am I supposed to pay for my nails if your card doesn’t work?” “I don’t know.” “Don’t take my money, that’s my money! “It’s fine.” “He’s not even gonna remember in five minutes he just… resets.” “He’s not going to remember you asking for his credit card number?” “No.” “Oh” “I mean it’s expensive, I gotta be with him all day.” “I mean yea I kinda figured it out.” *laughs* “You should try it.” “No, I… Actually have to give back to, you know, the community and society in an honest way.” “Are you trying to say what i’m doing is wrong?” “It is.” “You don’t know what…you can’t be serious.” *laughs* But she is serious, and now this woman can’t stay silent any longer.”
This hits close to home because my grandfather had alzheimers before he passed away so thank you to those who stood up for him.
I would like to see Bill in another episode.
I'm so sad . I'm freaking crying.
If Bill has real dementia I pray for him
Got me cryin and shit
i would walk up to that lady take the walet and her phone give it to bill let bill have her phone
i have a thing for old people i swear i just love them so much oh this is getting out of control
I really really just feel guilty when a weak person gets treated like that.
jesus do ppl actually do this? this nvr crossed my mind…
I know it's acting but my heart hurts when old people are involved in these situations because it actually happens. Even when it is acting š„ŗš„ŗš„ŗ
This one was very hard for me to watch. My father had dementia, and this is exactly why my mother and I cared for him ourselves until his passing. Unfortunately this doesn't just happen on TV shows, it happens far too often in real life. The idea of any person being taken advantage of and mistreated in this way both infuriates me and breaks my heart. People speaking up against it in a public place is great, but it still continues behind closed doors if the proper authorities aren't notified. Sometimes even then nothing is actually done, and I know that because I called APS years ago on a family who abused and neglected their grandmother. Nothing was done about it. Many people called about this family, but nothing happened. I was best friends with the CNA who worked for the family, and she herself had called as well, but the woman was still left in the care of her abusive family. It is frustrating beyond words to not be able to help someone who can't help themselves. I'm crying my face off…
Old people are so cute I love BILLLLLL
I feel terrible for people with degenerative conditions, especially Alzheimer's and dementia. I hope and pray that they find a cure for these diseases real soon!
I would have lost my shit on that woman. I am so sick and tired of people treating our elders like garbage. This is why I am going into Social Work with my focus on Geriatrics. I have seen this situation in too many ways, shapes and forms, throughout my career. It is appalling.
Bill is the best actor in the world
Did anyone notice the girl who was laughing not knowing that it's all an act??? She should be ashamed of her self u can tell she was embarrassed it turned out to be acting she never defended the old man and seemed to have been enjoying the way he was being treated. Characterless woman mxm.
i hate seeing old nice people being mistreated omfg :((((
I wanna give bill a hug š„ŗš„ŗ
Is bill an actor? Or does he actually have demantia?
Its reminds me of when my crooked ass aunt did this to both my grandparents and aunt (they never had the Alzheimers) but fuck… it pulls at your heart strings
the fact that the real nurse started asking god for help makes me think she wanted to slap the shit out of the actress
Poor bill I feel bad for him š
I cried while watching this. My aunt had Alzheimerās and she meant the world to me.
What would you do?
Id beat the living daylights outta this girl
Its such a scary thought. Imagine losing all the memories of your loved ones. Life is harsh so enjoying every second matters.
I feel like people would have acted a lot differently if the roles were reversed like really some people were laughing.
When someone says something rude to old people I feel like crying. So you should always remember to say nice things no matter what. Who agrees with me. Comment down below
Get that coin sis jk
Lady in pink scrubs makes me want to punch her in the face. Goddamn.
That pisses me off so much!!! I take care of elderly every day and for care taker to do that is very disrespectful! These elderly depend on us to protect them, love them, and most importantly care for them. The elderly are the reason why we now have everything we need because they built this world for us. Respect, respect, respect
it hurt me when he said "Where are we?"
Sad thing is this is happening right now
This is so sad my grandma has alzhimers
"Are you trying to say what I'm doing is wrong?"
"It is." Oof
This is actually what happens in the real world though.its so so sad. Old people getting taken advantage of,wow..how can someone do that?
This made me cry so much. ;-;
They shot multiple different scenes. How many drinks did Giselle have?
In that case, I would report her… unless I am unable to refrain myself and rid the world of such lesser human. Well, lesser human… rather a cockroach yes.
I feel bad
I Whant To beat this caregider even tho she is a actor lol idk why šš š š
Every time a old lady or man gets hurt i pray for all
The last lady broke my heart such a good and kind person
Wouldn't go well for her if it was me !! Just being honest!!
if sombody do this to my grandfather im gonna punch his or her face
Omg
If this wqs real
I would slap her damn face and smack her @ss and also give that old man a new caretaker
And well just call the police
Snatch her hair and done
But although i am only 11
Idc
Elders need their own rights
My sister also said that
If this was real
she would pull her out side then smack her
Omg…. Her acting so real , she make me wanna choke her
taking advantage of anyone is evil its wrong on all levels its unjustifiable & people who do take advantage of people must be punished by going jail for at least 35yrs
some caregivers really do this. It frustrates me so much
no one would take advantage of my family if my grandmother or grandfather like that the nursing home would hear from me until that person was fired and every last penny was paid back.
If that was a caregiver doing that to MY GRANDMOTHER who has dementia, I would beat her fucking ass
That guy is soooo cute!
This is my Aunty well she does not have Alzheimerās but people take advantage of her since sheās really old so my brother moved in with her
This is so upsetting š what if it were real and he werenāt an actor š
In the beginning when bill said āwhere are we?ā And she took his money, it hurted me so much…
āItās not right, itās what would you doā heās been waiting a while to use that one you can tell
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When old people are involved my fucking heart HURTS.
Itās sad Bcs this has happened to people Iāve known
I felt bad for Bill… he was old an acted so lost, my heart just BROKE
Seeing elderly people like this makes me cry
i feel bad for bill and I know it's all acting
Disgrace means shame
That girl in the pink scrubs reminds me of a girl in my class XDDD
My great grandma died of Alzheimer's so this hits close to home. I LOVE THE LADY IN THE BLUE
If Bill wasnāt actually an actor, I would beat the shit out of that girl.
Me as a guy. I got teared up with the last lady talking about her grandma. Made me think about my grandma when she passed away
I just watched 3 vids of care givers abusing the patients, if i seen this id beat that bitchs ass.
This makes me mad the way this so called caregiver doing to this patient. It not right for this thing is doing that. It's disgusting and not right. I know because I have seen it happen to these people like this man and it's hurts deep down in my heart. Im a CNA/caregiver for 20 some years and I have helped alot of patients like him and when I go help them. Do you know what they (patient's) say to me when I first meet them to help them. They tell me, please don't steal from me. Now that seeds me a red flag that some caregiver took advantage of them and that's what makes me angry. It's not right what she was doing.
This literally hurts my soul, I work as a caregiver for people with dementia and Alzheimerās. Itās so uncomfortable and disgusting for me to watch this. I KNOW ITS FAKE BUT STILL IT HURTS
My Dad died of Dementia….saddest days of my life……and to make it even harder to deal with my mother was charged with abuse for bashing a old person and she lost her job in a nursing home…I will never forgive her for being so evil…..to this day I still wonder what she did to my Dad before he died that I didn't know….RIP Dad š love you always
GOD BLESS YOU ALL.
Iām going to cry … imagine if this was real
I work at a hospital with older folks and they are so sweet š¢š¢š¢ I could never š¢š¢
If i'm sitting beside her? I would actualy hit her in the face right away! No need for conversation. š
Blue scrubs was praying for the strength to not kick pink scrubs ass.
Why does Bill pay the bills?!
I'll leave now-
Tears …..I love the fact that there are still good people out there! The woman in blue scrubs stepped up to the plate! God bless you!
I actually seen a aged care nurse buying groceries for her patient yesterday doing the right thing told her what an amazing person she was
Wow my grandpa has Alzheimerās and I know this is fake but that HURTS
My granda had dementia. It was what caused his death in the end, he literally forgot how to swallow. He was the nicest man you could ever meet. He didnāt ever say much but he could give you his little smile and everything just felt alright again. There is only one time that any of us can remember him shouting and it was due to the dementia. I know this wasnāt real but I donāt know how I could have restrained myself in such a situation. I would be crying, I would be shouting, and I would be taking this wonderful man away from her and calling the police. Iām a bit like my granda, pretty shy and quiet, but there are some things that I just couldnāt take. This is one of them. Dementia is awful, you see your loved one forget you and their lives slowly, and you are still hanging on to every memory. You have to watch them just fade away. I believe only the lowest of the low could ever do something like that. I believe even hardened criminals would struggle to be so disgusting.
This warms my heart knowing that when people see something like this, they step in and help out and stand up for the person getting hurt.
Iām talking about that woman in scrubs
This is way to heartbreaking
just because he doesnāt Remember doesnāt mean you didnāt do it
This make me cry I hate jazzel
Bro my heart!š„⤠This is so…..Awwwww⤠I know shes an actor but her character really aggravates meš
I can understand the message and pain. I lost my grandpa to the same thing. When it started it was hard. But when he forgot how to eat and drink and we tried to show him he couldn't did it. R.i.p to the loved ones taken due to this illness.
My mom used to work in a nursing home, with tons of old people, I have autism and adhd and Iām only 14 but I loved taking care of old people I would have called the police, or rushed and got him water
i had to keep reminding myself that they were actors ohmygod..
I feel like at 5:44 the care taker actually felt sorry for the lady who was defending the grandpa but thought to herself ānah I canning give up I need to make it look realisticā but not gonna lie I actually started crying when I heard that news and I feel absolutely bad when the elderly are being treated this way
I wanna cry
That actress in Pink I wanna slapped her hard until her head fell off ššš Yes she's only actress šš
the little āwhere are we?ā in the beginning š„ŗ im literally crying
Ok I thought I would be fine with this but I canāt. It reminds me of my great grandpa who is 94 I think and in the hospital.
I don't understand how not one person was absolutely outraged
Loved
I know itās fake but there are still tears rolling down my face š
Definitely abuse
Not to be dramatic or anything but like I would die for bill š„ŗ